Category Archives: Emotional Health

Time…A Pressure Point or Opportunity?

What is your relationship with time?  I must confess I’ve often had a challenging relationship with time.  Being women 50 and over wisdom suggests NOW is a great time to re-evaluate our personal “mental model” of time so that we can choose one that works for us and our well-being.
The times in my life when I thought I  [...]

Catching a Speed Driven Pattern

Have you ever noticed that when you ask for something it often shows up, except not in the package you expected?!!  Last week my post was about calming, and I provided a basic introduction to breathing for stress reduction (See below).  Guess what, the more I focused on my breathing, the more I noticed how [...]

Try a Touch of Compassion

As we discussed holiday traditions and the joy and challenges that can be associated with them in the last Divas Dive In teleclass, I was reminded of the importance of compassion.  When things don’t go as planned, when you find yourself out of sorts, when people don’t follow through, try a touch of compassion for [...]

Freeing Decision Making – Part I

This past weekend I reveled in the brilliant scarlets and the bright yellows of fall as I drove up Snoqualmie Pass for a retreat near North Bend.  I experienced total peace.  A month before I struggled with the decision, “Was the retreat a worthy expense?!”  As women 50 and older we can either get bolder and more [...]

Getting to and Telling the Truth

Cheryl Richardson is a sister over fifty who is a successful and well-know life coach, author and public speaker.  I heard her in person on Sunday at the “You Can Heal Your Life” Conference.  She shared about a time when she moved to a new home.  Her expectation was that the experience would be pleasant [...]

Larger than…

Have you ever had a caricature drawn of yourself?  Well, if you have been to a county fair, the Bellevue Art Festival or the Champs-Elysees, you have probably been offered a chance to do so.  I have had a number of opportunities, and it seemed frivolous until I reached fifty and saw the work of an artist [...]

Hot and Cranky

Yes, we were!  Friends were, neighbors were, and I was, at least once over the last week.  Here in the Seattle/Bellevue area we were having some of the hottest temperatures on record for this region as we broke 100 degrees on Wednesday.   As I saw tempers flare with the temperatures, I became aware that when [...]

Friendships, a Source of Well-Being

Women since the beginning of time have woven together friendships, families, communities.  Our inner knowing and wisdom about weaving people and resources together has been confirmed now in scientific research.  Women live longer and have an added buffer for dealing with stress out of the friendships that they develop and maintain. These relationships can be [...]

Just Say “No,” Simple, yes. Easy… not so much.

What power there is in just saying no!  In a recent discussion with a colleague it became evident that saying no is one of those on-going challenges for women.  During your forties and fifties, it almost screams to be used with greater conscious awareness and perhaps, frequency.  When we are being tried by hormone surges, [...]